Ever heard that you're unique? That only you are exactly like you, so you should be what you are and not let anybody else tell you different. That. You've heard that, right? So you listen to the advice and you decide that you are you, and that's great. But now that you're all unique, you … Continue reading The Million Versions of You
What is going on in your life right now? At work, an upcoming promotion, meeting, or interview that you know could make or break your future at your company? At home, is there something you need to tell your partner but just keep to yourself in order to maintain make-believe-perfect household? Does your friend need … Continue reading The Path of MOST Resistance
Sometimes you get stuck. Your endless routine might make you feel hopeless. You ask yourself: Is this really how it's going to be every day? Or you might be ruthlessly pursuing a goal, and you're not getting anywhere. And you cannot see what to do next.
Advice on success often frames failure is a great tool. The idea is that if you fail a lot, you will learn more, and go forward more rapidly. This is true on most cases. But sometimes failure is just bad. Like when you are trying to quit drinking, smoking, spending, binging. The first time you … Continue reading Why failure is not always good