What is going on in your life right now? At work, an upcoming promotion, meeting, or interview that you know could make or break your future at your company? At home, is there something you need to tell your partner but just keep to yourself in order to maintain make-believe-perfect household? Does your friend need … Continue reading The Path of MOST Resistance
Sometimes you get stuck. Your endless routine might make you feel hopeless. You ask yourself: Is this really how it's going to be every day? Or you might be ruthlessly pursuing a goal, and you're not getting anywhere. And you cannot see what to do next.
Advice on success often frames failure is a great tool. The idea is that if you fail a lot, you will learn more, and go forward more rapidly. This is true on most cases. But sometimes failure is just bad. Like when you are trying to quit drinking, smoking, spending, binging. The first time you … Continue reading Why failure is not always good
As the old Buddhist quote goes, the teacher will only appear once you are ready for her. And once you are ready, she will appear everywhere all the time. Before you are ready for a new lesson, you will miss it even if a whole chapter is written about it in the book you're reading. … Continue reading When the student is ready…